Seems it takes a thousand encouraging words to ease the hurt of one exasperated sigh; one off-the-cuff insult. Despite what we tell ourselves, our particular issues never give us permission to hurt someone's feelings.
I never wanna be "that guy."
Cranky Hank, Prime Minister of Petulance.
We all have our times when the ground is wet with our tears. Let the suffering be purged, then rise and go forth in love, for God cares more deeply for us than we can fathom.